The Dynamic Leader

My Dad is my real life hero. He is a genuine role model and an exemplary citizen. I’ve never seen my dad take a drink of alcohol or smoke a cigarette. Do you want to know why? When he was a high school football coach he made a decision ….if he was going to ask his athletes not to drink or smoke then he wasn’t going to either …. and 30 years post coaching, he still doesn’t. He leads by example.

This story starts with a crown and a mirror.....

You see, I’m a dad of two children- a pretty darn proud dad. My daughter is the oldest and she turned 3 in January.   She has a character trait that I value, and it’s confidence. At least once a day, and sometimes several times a day, my daughter proudly climbs her step-stool in the bathroom, adjusts her crown on top of her head, pulls her shoulders back, looks in the mirror and proclaims “I’m the most beautiful princess in the world.” No hesitation, not in an arrogant manner, just confident.

Tip #1- Say Cheese!  

Take a mental photograph of a personal accomplishment. How did you look, how did you feel? Did you celebrate with a fist-pump? Save that mental photo. When you need a boost in confidence, refer to that picture to light your fire.